Compromise?!

Love. What is it really? Is it a feeling? Is it an action? Is it a word to describe a feeling or an action? Or is it something else. The bible says that “…God loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in him would have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) … More Compromise?!

Stop Telling Yourself that Single People Have a Ton of Free Time

There are 2 types of people in the blogging world; those who have a blogging schedule and know what they’re gonna write about…then there are people more like me. You know the ones who kinda just pick up their blog and post just because… I wanted to be one of those people with the schedule and … More Stop Telling Yourself that Single People Have a Ton of Free Time

Black Men… Step Up So We Don’t Have To Step Down

Dear brothas, And by brothas…I mean you chocolatey, fine men. And you caramel pieces of handsomeness. And you light-skinned sons-of-a-shut-yo-mouth. Yes you. Those who I love to look at, talk to, and flirt with. Still wondering? I may be talking to you. Brothers…it’s hard out here for a black woman…married and single. I read so many columns … More Black Men… Step Up So We Don’t Have To Step Down

Race Relations: The Shift In My Blog and A Letter to Humanity

I am Regina…Regina Patterson. I have a vision. A goal. A yearning in my soul to find a bit of solace – and even more empowerment – on this fictional, yet so real topic of race. Fictional because the idea of race is 100% made up. Yet, realistic because it’s the very means that divides … More Race Relations: The Shift In My Blog and A Letter to Humanity

The Topic of Race is Extremely Uncomfortable – Get Over It

Black Lives Matter. Eric Garner. Trayvon Martin. Michael Brown. NAACP. George Zimmerman. LAPD. Ferguson. New York Police. Police Brutality. White Privilege. Christopher Columbus. Slavery. Civil Rights. Civil Rights Movement. Die-Ins. Sit-Ins. Church bombings. Home bombings. Domestic Terrorism. Protests. My skin. Your skin. Colorblindness. Equal treatment. Affirmative action. Equal Opportunity Employer. Assimilation. Conformation. Rainbow coalition. MLK … More The Topic of Race is Extremely Uncomfortable – Get Over It